So I’m failing…. my true love and I’m letting her down.
She is going through hell and I’m so proud of her but I keep letting her down.
She called me today and was so happy she’s been doing well….but then all a sudden she stopped talking to me and didn’t wanna tell me what had happened just she wanted to be alone, I tried to find out what was wrong, but I upset her so I left her alone as she asked. But I guess me finding out was what wrong was wrong or maybe I shouldn’t left her alone, maybe I didn’t do it right. She told me I was in a mood so stupid me must have given the wrong impression off as I was fine but still concerned for my girl.
I hate how angry I make her, how much I let her down how I annoy her but it’s even more heart breaking I don’t even no why that’s how crap i am.
I had a naff day, awful infact I feel sorry for myself coz I’m a little under the weather everyone wants attention when ya feeling sickly, but I didn’t get chance to say anything and it’s all coz i must say wrong things or give off wrong vibes.
I wanna settle down with this girl, Iv recently realised how much she means to me so….why am I such an rubbish boyfriend???
So I lost my now ex girlfriend due to depression and anxiety the worries I was feeling were making my mind say all the wrong things and at the incorrect times, I couldn’t control the words and thoughts.
I would show a reaction to a scenario which I didn’t wanna show at all and look and think why did you say that and I would get angry but at me…how can you be angry at yourself? Once you hit this point you hate that person, your anger towards them is so strong ya see them in the mirror and hate the image you see, you see there Image and posts on social media and think I never wanna be like them, you think to yourself some people don’t deserve the luck they get…..then the worst part of it all you realise the person you are thinking of, it’s you!!!
Then when you realise it’s you who you hate and who you are, you hit the depression stage, how do you destroy you??? Death.
I think when I hear of a suicide of the bravery of someone not the selfishness, I envy the courage it took them to do it.
I want to be able to do, the confidence to be able to do it…..heights scare me, why? Because an open space looking down, I know I would lean to far forward and fall so to die scares me yet wanting to die excites me? I can’t understand that apart from shows how insanely idiotic I am.
I would wanna tell my loved one or two how much I love them and writing a suicide note or a hundred as it seems doesn’t worry me but why haven’t I the balls to do it??? I pray one day il be like oh…I did do it.
I drive home in the rain and don’t slow down praying I end up in a tree or that lorry who’s tyre goes let it hit me, don’t see me and crush my car.
Then that way I wouldn’t have to deal with the only person I hate in the whole wide world.
Recently people’s “banter” or persons banter is aimed at how stupid I am, yeah I have a clever job but me I’m a failure I’m stupid I do stupid things clumsy things, today I drove down the wrong road as I ignored the sat nav then lost my pen again and dropped my drink over me yeah may seem funny but it really angers me makes me hate me even more for being useless.
So this year it’s the aim to move out….that’s it but this year should be moving out with my partner and was supposed to be the year I get engaged to her too (me little old me finding a wife) feels weird.
How ever it’s not the case due to me being me I lost all that, my biggest dream in the world a girl who was not perfect but she’s perfection and was perfect for me, something I have never experienced someone making me smile all the time not breaking my heart, being her friend is okay because I don’t want her to be with him (me) because she’s better then him and he deserves everything he gets.
So I sit here tonight and think why, what’s the point….when all I want is a rewind so I could live my dream a little longer. If not the stop button because I don’t wanna watch any more of the episode of ME it is awful and destroying me… No one can ever hate anyone the way I hate me, but I’m happy I feel this way too because everything that happens to me is what I deserve.